Join the TEPP Livestream M-F around 7:30pm Central!
Watch replays in the live stream playlist!
The Easy Path Project Live Stream #07
Strong Inner Game Outcomes Pt. 1 – Belief in Self-Worth & Positive Self-Image
Strong Inner Game Outcomes Pt. 2 – Empathy & Coping Skills – TEPP #08
Welcome to the Easy Path Project live stream! I’m Michael, and tonight we’re diving deep into a question that could transform your life: Can a strong inner game shape your reality?
I’ve made some bold statements over the past week about how if you do these things, your life will get better. Not “should,” not “might,” not “could” – but will. Tonight, I want to show you exactly why I’m so confident about this.
We’re now three series deep in part ones because I keep trying to narrow this down to something very simple and easy to understand. What I’m sharing tonight are nine key ideas that encompass what inner game truly is, along with concrete examples of the results you can expect.
The Foundation: Belief in Self-Worth
Greater Confidence
Once you start believing in your self-worth, you’ll approach challenges and opportunities with a stronger sense of your ability to succeed. You become more confident naturally, and this confidence grows as you accumulate experiences – whether you succeed or fail.
Healthier Relationships
You’ll be less likely to settle for less than you deserve and more likely to form equitable connections. Too many people talk about why others should “settle” for them. Instead of asking someone to settle, why not become the kind of person where no one has to settle at all?
When you establish what kind of relationship you want and move through life with that framework, everything else falls into place naturally.
Increased Resilience
Setbacks become learning opportunities rather than reflections of your inherent value. Just like in business where you “fire fast” because it’s not personal – it’s just not a good fit. The same applies to relationships and social interactions.
If someone rejects you or ends a relationship, it doesn’t define your worth. There could be countless reasons why, and internalizing it serves no purpose. Learn from it, drop it, and move on.
Willingness to Take Risks
Fear of failure diminishes because your self-worth isn’t tied to outcomes. Whether an approach works out or not doesn’t make you a winner or loser – you’re the same person either way. It’s just their opinion of you.
Improved Self-Care
You’ll prioritize your well-being because you believe you’re worthy of care. Something as simple as dressing well can transform how people respond to you. I once worked with someone who was very lackadaisical in his dress. Just getting him clean clothes and a stylish hat made a dramatic difference.
Here’s the magic: when you feel good about yourself, you want to look good. When you look good, you feel good about yourself. It’s self-reinforcing.
Setting Boundaries and Reducing People-Pleasing
Stronger Boundaries
You’ll feel more empowered to say no and protect your time and energy. You don’t have to be stern or hardcore about it, but when you let people know where you stand – gently but firmly – they treat you differently.
Reduced People-Pleasing
Your actions become driven by your own values rather than seeking external validation. You stop thinking you have to earn attention or affection. Instead, you give because you’re a giving person, not because you’re hoping to get something back.
This was a lesson I learned the hard way – sometimes people receive value just from giving to you. Learning to be a graceful receiver is just as important as being a generous giver.
Embracing Your Authentic Self
Greater Authenticity
You’ll feel more comfortable being yourself without fear of judgment. You own who you are. Even if people pick on you, tease you, or ignore you, it doesn’t shake your foundation.
When you’re your authentic self, people will see you, know you, and feel you. They respond better because you’re not hiding behind a facade.
Enhanced Creativity
You’ll be less inhibited by self-doubt and more open to expressing your unique ideas. You won’t be afraid to be vulnerable – there’s a fine line between being weak and being honest and open.
Each person brings something unique to interactions. Your mission, especially with women, is often to help make their lives more interesting. If you’re coming up with the same boring approaches as everyone else, that’s tiresome.
Increased Joy and Fulfillment
A strong sense of self-worth provides a solid foundation for happiness. When you’re not constantly worried about external considerations, you can actually enjoy yourself because you know who you are, what you believe in, and you trust yourself.
The Power of Positive Self-Image
Greater Comfort in Social Situations
You’ll be less self-conscious and more present in interactions. One reason guys struggle with conversations is they’re always thinking about what to say next to seem witty or smart, instead of actually listening.
With a positive self-image, you’re less self-conscious and more present in the moment, dealing with what’s actually happening.
Enhanced Presentation
You’ll carry yourself with more poise and confidence. Think about an athlete who just won a championship – there’s a difference between normal everyday posture and “I’m the champion” posture.
Reduced Self-Criticism
You’ll be kinder and more compassionate toward yourself. Negative self-talk is cumulative – it beats you up and holds you down. Just stopping the self-criticism naturally helps you feel better about yourself.
Better Mental Health
A positive self-image contributes to lower levels of anxiety and depression. It prevents the downward spiral where you’re not looking good, not feeling good about yourself, and getting stuck in the dumps.
Greater Openness to New Experiences
You’ll be less held back by fear of how you’ll be perceived. When you feel confident, you’re more likely to try new things, be in new situations, and meet new people.
Self-Acceptance and Moving Forward
Increased Self-Acceptance
You’ll embrace your imperfections as part of what makes you unique. We’re all human with strengths, weaknesses, and imperfections.
Here’s something interesting: when you’re talking with someone, they might be just as worried about how you perceive them as you are about how they perceive you. They’re not necessarily sitting there judging everything you do harshly.
This is why face-to-face interactions are so much better than dating apps. In person, people take in the totality of who you are – your presence, demeanor, body language, and how you influence the communication. You’re missing all of that with apps.
The Easy Path Forward
Mastery of your inner game transcends temporary tricks and techniques, leading to a more meaningful and rewarding journey through life. Everything in your life – dating, relationships, public interactions – is affected by your inner game.
Many people have a diminished sense of self for various reasons. The idea here is to unwind that tightness, get down to who you really are, and start rebuilding from that authentic foundation.
The person you’ve always wanted to be is already inside you. You just need to let them free.
Join us each night at 7:30 PM Central for live stream shows, where we’ll explore coping skills, flexibility, and true self-expression. Make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don’t miss our live conversations!